“My Buddy Bench Project” is a non-profit organization created by a child and her mother. We aim to encourage communities to collaborate in creating a kinder future for our children by adopting and installing “Buddy Benches” in elementary schools and public spaces.
Our Mission
To promote kindness and empathy among children in schools and public spaces through
“Buddy Benches” combating bullying.
“I was an elementary student not so long ago and I experienced what it feels like to be socially isolated, and at times, bullied. I want to help other kids feel safe and make friends. With your help we can make a positive and life-changing difference, one Buddy Bench at a time.”
Victoria Portela Co-Founder, My Buddy Bench Project
How to Detect Child Bullying and
Help Children Navigate School Violence
Detecting signs of bullying in our children is crucial to developproper ways to fight against it. Dr. Rina S. Santiago-Guia encourages speaking to our children each day about school activities, maintaining regular contact with their teachers, and just keeping up with their routine. The more involved we are, the easier it is to spot behavioral changes.
Kindness Ambassadors
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A Buddy Bench is a designated seat in schools or public spaces where children can sit if they need a friend by their side. It stands out, promotes awareness, and prevents bullying.
Children who want a friend to play or talk with can sit on the Buddy Bench. Kindness Ambassadors and other children are encouraged to invite them to join activities. Repeated use of the bench signals the need for support, prompting school staff to provide assistance.
MIAMI-DADE COUNTY, Fla. – A student is spearheading an anti-bullying initiative in Miami-Dade County.
She’s the co-founder of the “My Buddy Bench Project” and is helping to combat bullying one bench at a time.
“I think this organization is great because my personal experiences have been hard in elementary school and I don’t want anyone else to have the same experiences,” Victoria Portela said.
Victoria and her mother, Mary Portela, co-founded the My Buddy Bench Project — built off of Victoria’s personal experience with bullying.
“I was joining a new school in the third grade and I did feel really hurt in the beginning because I didn’t know these people and they were just judging me off of … I don’t know, just for anything,” Victoria said.
That feeling of judgement and isolation sparked Victoria to create this anti-bullying nonprofit with her mother.
Thank you for your interest in the My Buddy Bench Project. We are thrilled to see your enthusiasm for fostering kindness and inclusivity in our communities. Please note that due to high demand and limited resources, new applicants will be assigned to a waiting list to participate in our program. We appreciate your patience and understanding as we work diligently to accommodate all interested parties.
Rest assured, your commitment to creating a kinder future for our children is invaluable, and we are dedicated to supporting you every step of the way. Together, we can make a meaningful difference in the lives of young learners and promote a culture of empathy and friendship.
Thank you for your continued support. Sincerely, My Buddy Bench Project.